Wondering if He Misses Me...

I have to admit something. Every once in a while, I'm caught off guard by a nagging feeling. Do you ever have a thought that sneaks up on you regarding a "someone" from your past? Wondering if he ever thinks about you...if he ever misses you...if he's totally miserable without you to the degree that he contemplates whether or not he can exist without you for even one more day... Goodness! HAHA!

Oh dear...

And then I'm left wondering why the thought even came up because clearly it was worth it to him to be done. So, wondering about the "wonderings" is quite pointless...

Just saying...there are those moments...for which chocolate was clearly created. :)

My "Short" Rule...

Gosh...I'm so sorry to say that I have a...dating prejudice. AHHH!

It's...the short man.

I know that it's probably not right, but I'm freaking 6'1"!! Every time I'm around a little man, it makes me feel like I'm Ginormica in "Monsters Vs. Aliens". Clearly an insecurity of mine...but not one that I can get over. It's strange because I don't feel that way at all around my shorter female friends, but then again...I'm NOT dating my female friends!!!

So, this guy asked me out the other night that was...shorter. Well...very short. And, I'm sorry to say that I just couldn't. I knew that there'd really be nothing to make me ever "eventually get used to it", so I didn't even leave the door slightly ajar. I was nice...but I didn't do the "Oh, I'm busy tonight...maybe another night?" thing.

Is it ok to have our little (big) items of "Heck No!"?? Gosh, that's one that I just can't see moving past...

Don't be the Manipulator

I've been watching a relationship situation play out lately, and it's left me with a validated conviction...

I don't ever want to be a manipulator of my Mr. Right...EVER!

I don't want to have to be strategic to get my way or to mess with him to "make him pay". No, I want to be able to be "me" and let him be "him"!! And I hope that we can both value honesty and support!!