Don't be the Manipulator

I've been watching a relationship situation play out lately, and it's left me with a validated conviction...

I don't ever want to be a manipulator of my Mr. Right...EVER!

I don't want to have to be strategic to get my way or to mess with him to "make him pay". No, I want to be able to be "me" and let him be "him"!! And I hope that we can both value honesty and support!!